“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

(Humorously:) I am not done with you yet, but I do not want him (Carl) to feel left out over here, and while you are recovering I will speak to him: for you were also in your own isolated universe, and if hers had fears in it, then yours was a valley of desolation in which your emotions were like unruly animals galloping around in there; and you were so frightened and worried about your own worth that you could not consider hers, and you were so insecure that her sensing insecurity, when you were aware of it, drove you to anger.

I am saying then that some of your interpretations of the relationship were based on what you would call factual reality, but part was also based on your own insecurity.

You did not see yourselves as people of integrity coming together in love, but as insecure individuals hoping that love could find the answer to fears that you were not willing to face otherwise.

[...] When you change your affiliation and find yourself now and then encountering such feelings; and they are always one way or another feelings of insecurity—then admit to yourself that while they made sense in the unsafe universe, they do not belong in the safe one. [...]

(10:15.) Your body reacts to the feelings of insecurity by retreating to whatever degree, slight or occasional, or with determined persistence—your body or anyone else’s—as long as you really believe you live in a state of threat.

[...] Your pendulum will give you the specific reasons for any difficulties, but behind these ever-changing reasons is always the sense of insecurity you feel when you believe the universe is against you to whatever degree. [...]

[...] Beneath it all, however, is the insecurity resulting from passé beliefs in the unsafeness of the universe.

[...] She is also insecure and very on guard against threats of any kind. [...]

[...] She means well enough but in her insecurity she believes them when they tell her that she would be a fool for not raising rents. [...]

[...] You must realize that you are projecting these insecurities from a past existence when you were indeed frightfully insecure. [...]

For many reasons having to do with your own past existence, and with your mother in this life, there was a basic insecurity and a feeling that you were not strong enough to survive on your own. [...]

[...] You must not, however, feel insecure but safe and you must also feel adventurous. [...]

[...] In the case of an insecure ego you have two immediate problems, and are involved instantly with difficulties:

[...] The ego would be extremely insecure. [...]

It is not surprising then that you often feel insecure. [...]

[...] Immobility on Ruburt’s part built up further the sense of insecurity. [...]

[...] The basic insecurity, in other words.

His powerful basic insecurity was caused by a broken home, and a situation where he was also thrown into alien cultures; not only was he unsure of belonging to a family, but also felt he had no cultural or national belongings.

[...] This adds to the insecurity. [...]

It upsets Ruburt when you talk of moving, but make no actions to do so, because subconsciously it reminds him of the deep uncertainty and insecurity he felt when he was in the orphanage. [...]

[...] So in searching out new ways, personally and creatively, Ruburt felt himself on insecure ground. [...]

That insecurity has largely prevented him from fully using his own abilities on his own behalf (intently). [...]

[...] Your wife will feel insecure only when she feels that your own confidence is threatened. When you cease giving orders she will feel insecure. [...]

[...] He had put a great weight of trust and loyalty in you, and felt lost, insecure and frightened. [...]

[...] It tries to release further, but the unaccustomed new positions of the right ankle make him feel insecure.

[...] That represented a period in his life where he felt physically insecure. [...]

[...] A man who loses memory of past events feels insecure and lost, but other types of personality gestalts operate far differently. [...]

[...] For as a child you feared you would be swept away by the raw emotions of your parents, and you feel insecure at such demonstrations. [...]

[...] He feels that this will hurt you, but more than this, it makes him feel insecure. [...]

[...] He is extremely insecure, hiding behind compulsive attention to details.