1 result for (book:tes8 AND session:344 AND stemmed:spontan)
7/111 (6%)
job
nursery
symptoms
restraints
fear
[... 7 paragraphs ...]
He, as I explained earlier, has a strong spontaneous self, which he had been taught to fear. It was because of distrust of this spontaneous self that he accepted your suggestions so readily and without argument. This did indeed result in further lack of mobility, with strong emotional blockages because of his feeling for you. This explains some of the difficulties incidentally in your intimate life together.
[... 1 paragraph ...]
Remove as many limitations as possible. The spontaneous self is remarkably resilient, and bounces back from its own errors when it makes any.
[... 55 paragraphs ...]
If he is going to have an outside job it is as good as any, and after the summer should not bother him. It fills certain spontaneous needs. If however effort is to be made to find another solution—
[... 30 paragraphs ...]
He is extremely strong, open, and giving and spontaneous when he is functioning well. Any strong impediments cause him to retreat however, though for a while a smiling surface personality hides this fact.
[... 2 paragraphs ...]
One of the symptoms, you understand, is a fear of his own spontaneity.
[... 2 paragraphs ...]
(“Which symptom is related to a fear of his own spontaneity?”)
This has been rather explained earlier this evening, and in previous sessions: Previous conditioning, and we explained why he became sensitized to this. The fear of spontaneity is what made him so passive in following suggestions of yours, to which he did not agree.
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