“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

I would not plan on the program. Now, give me a moment. I do not see it as a place you should fill. There seems to be another person involved, not on your part, but on the other party’s side. This person has a strong bearing on the other person’s thoughts. These would be highly negative simply because of your characteristics and the other person’s characteristics. These could be a smothering effect that you would try to conquer, but in doing so, there would be the tendency that you would try too hard. You would want the right things to happen, in other words. There seems to be another offer, perhaps three months in the distance, that would be much more, not only to your advantage, but to the advantage of others.

You can free yourself by letting go. You must let go without trying as hard as you have. Relax about the affair. Do not try desperately to let go. Do you see the difference, because it is important that you do. Give me a moment. You must learn to release her completely from your own thoughts, the habitual thoughts that you have concerning her you must change, even though at this point your thoughts seem completely legitimate and in line with physical reality as you know it. You must change the situation completely, for the better, in your own mind. See it change, imagine it change. Do not keep checking against the physical reality that you know to see whether or not it has changed, for particularly in the beginning, this can lead you astray or make you feel you are getting nowhere; but if you change the situation in your own mind you will change it in physical reality.