“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

If you treat her as a desirable woman, you will find a difference in your home atmosphere. If you cannot do this, then you must treat her primarily as an individual person. But if you treat her as a woman primarily, it must be as a desirable woman, or she will find no content as a woman or as an individual.

However, in the main you are doing two things wrong. You are treating her primarily as a woman rather than an individual person, but you are not treating her as a desirable woman rather than an individual person.

And if you treat her as a desirable woman, she will become one. You are treating her as a wife and mother, primarily. With this particular individual this is not adequate. She wants to be regarded as a desirable woman who happens to be your wife and a mother.

If you treat her as a desirable woman, you will find a difference in your home atmosphere. If you cannot do this, then you must treat her primarily as an individual person. But if you treat her as a woman primarily, it must be as a desirable woman, or she will find no content as a woman or as an individual.

[...] You are treating her primarily as a woman rather than an individual person; but you are not treating her as a desirable woman rather than an individual person.

And if you treat her as a desirable woman, she will become one. You are treating her as a wife and mother, primarily. [...]

[...] (Pause.) On the surface level, such methods appear sometimes regrettable but necessary, but the deeper implications far outdo any temporary benefits, for through such methods men lose sight of life’s sacredness, and begin to treat it contemptuously.

[...] When you indulge in such black-and-white thinking, you treat your ideals shabbily. [...]

[...] In the past you treated the land in your country as if your species, being the “fittest,” had the right to survive at the expense of all other species, and at the expense of the land itself. [...]

[...] He treated his body like a tyrant treats his people, and the body strenuously objected. [...]

[...] He received an overabundance of sympathy, special treats, and so forth, so that his condition brought more and more rewards, even as he became more uncomfortable. [...]

The child becomes a teacher for the parents, for the doctors who treated him, for the people who read the Enquirer, and for all the people who will meet the child as he matures. [...]

[...] We would like to eventually tell our side of the story, and resent being treated like children in the interim. [...]

(Coupled with all of these things is the three-part article we’re reading in The New Yorker on the travails of publishing these days; the large sums involved, books being treated as “products,” etc. [...]

[...] Taking that for granted, and taking for granted the state of your society as it exists in your beliefs, then Prentice has treated you both very well—and me.

[...] You blame him and yell at him and then you wonder why he does not treat you right. [...]

[...] In any case, he has told me that he is treating me like a goody in that he does not feel you appreciated our last session. [...]

[...] It cannot be treated like a lawyer’s career or a scientist’s or whatever. [...]

[...] The physical ailment already is in existence and is being treated in privacy. [...]

[...] This in relation to the illness being treated?”)

[...] You see within yourselves the spirit of eternal vitality, and you honor it and you treat yourselves in that manner as gods. [...]

[...] You are not being treated like merchandise at Prentice, whatever Prentice’s faults might be, and you would be treated like merchandise by the high-powered agent, who would consider you a fine property, and expect you to act accordingly.

[...] Just before she did, we were treated to the rather strong and tasty smell of liver and onions, coming up the elevator shaft across the hall from our door, from the kitchen in the basement. [...]

[...] If you affirm the rightness of your physical being, then you help the cells and organs in your body, and without knowing it treat them kindly. [...]

[...] You have, however, reinforced the difficulty through accepting it as a fact, and then treating it, of course, as a fact that must be dealt with on its own terms. [...]

[...] Next I began to remind myself of Seth’s material in the last three private sessions—to live in the present and stop projecting into the future, that my body didn’t deserve to be treated that way, and didn’t understand such musings. [...]

[...] And see that you treat them well. [...]

The feelings should not be treated with disapproval, for it is, of course, because Ruburt disapproves of such feelings that he often keeps them hidden. [...]

It will be a good idea, even if it is not pleasant, for Ruburt to do some more free association in relationship to his fears about his body’s performance — and those fears should not then be treated impatiently. [...]