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Your communication, however, is much better. You can help most by reminding him of our resolutions when, say, he feels blue—for when he remembers them he does not need the reminder (with amusement)—and simply by reassuring him of his body’s good intent, and in its ability to follow through.

Whenever you can give it, then, reassurance with tempered sympathy.

[...] As we waited Jane said several times that she felt “a sense of reassurance” from Seth, that he was organizing some kind of material or program for her because of her physical situation. [...]

[...] There will be no regular session this evening, except for these comments that are meant to reassure Ruburt. [...]

[...] I spoke to Seth, asking for both his help and reassurance, his protection, and that he help Jane reach Blanche.

[...] I felt that my speaking, steadily but not rapidly, gave Jane freedom and reassurance to do more than she might have otherwise, and she later agreed to this. [...]

[...] I thought this reinforced the fact of contact, yet at the same time reassured Jane, by name, that she could do very well, and that Seth and I were with her as protectors.

[...] “This is Blanche,” was one of the first things she said, after I had deliberately called her Jane for reassurance, while thinking she had probably made contact with Blanche, and was somewhat unpleasantly involved in a sickroom episode.

I merely want to reassure Ruburt of my presence, to let him know that I hereby assert again those statements I made concerning his sitting on the porch.

I bid you a fond, reassuring good afternoon.

(Seth reassured Marian that should a child enter the room unexpectedly Ruburt would instantly “be himself,” and nothing would be noticed by the child. [...]

(Seth reassured Marian about the dream involving her dead mother, explaining how it was a case of Marian projecting her own subconscious fears, among other things. [...]

(Should she not be able to master the use of suggestion and positive religious faith quickly enough, Seth reassured Marian that the operation would then take care of the tumor, and that Marian had no worries here. [...]

(Pause.) I give you my blessings as always, and I want to reassure you, saying again that all issues are redeemed, and any failures seem finally to be only steps along the way, seen as failure only because they seemed lacking in the light of your own expectations. [...]

(Pause at 7:03.) I do not imagine we will go so long a time between sessions again, and I am speaking therefore to reassure you that I am still present. [...]

My purpose this evening was merely to assure you of my presence, and in particular to reassure Ruburt that the sessions could continue whenever he was willing. [...]

[...] This also represented a cautionary slowdown however to reassure you that he was not going to take over, overshadow you, since you have worked so hard at your own art without any such recognition.

[...] He could have been reassured by your reactions. [...]

He worries and looks for reassurance in that area.

I will here mention Ruburt’s dream, in which he spoke reassuringly to two men who were ill with cancer by telling them that this material said that he too had cancer.

[...] He reassured the two. [...]

[...] But even then the reassuring dream came first. [...]

The men, reassured by Ruburt in the dream, appeared without being old, although the original event of the past life involved men in their 70’s. This was a distortion of the personal subconscious, to add to the seeming separateness of the two dreams.

(9:37.) Ruburt needs your help once again to reassure him that relaxation is safe, that it is safe to let go, that he will not fall into darkness, that his muscles will actually become stronger as they relax, and that his creativity rises to the surface when his body and mind are more relaxed. [...]

As he becomes reassured again you see he will not require as many proclamations. [...] Therefore, the necessity for the reassurances.

[...] More than ordinarily, in need of your reassurances emotionally.

You, as teacher in this love relationship now, can count oddly enough on the passivity of his nature, and play on this, for then assured, reassured, the super-conscientious self can allow the spontaneous self to emerge in the sex relationship.

[...] Reassurances... [...]

Ruburt has wanted you to rub him for the sake of physical contact and reassurance, this being more than acceptable to both portions. [...]

In all such cases, some reassurance on your part will greatly help, and often can cut such episodes short. The body beliefs need to be tackled regardless of the attitudes that gave them birth, and your reassurances of his attractiveness are important—for he convinced himself at least to some degree that because of his condition he was not attractive to others.

[...] If you hear Ruburt grunting, et cetera, try to recognize the event, and try to reassure him, when possible. [...]

[...] Such experiences should be followed, however, by reassurances, both on your part, and by self-reminders on Ruburt’s part that his being and experience are indeed couched and held securely in safety and love.

[...] I reassured her, saying to let the session penetrate. [...]

(The balance of the session tonight after these two important revelations, consisted of an interchange between us that stressed reassurance upon my part,; including the statement, repeated often, that Jane now understood she didn’t need her symptoms any longer, that they could begin to disappear. [...]

[...] Later Jane told me that my reassurances were most welcome, and that she “drank them in” like water.

(I was more open and reassuring with Jane during this session than I have been for some time, and I told her I realized this was a fault on my part, and that I would do my best to remedy it.

[...] During the period of reassurance that followed these revelations, I stressed to her that at no time since our marriage have I thought of leaving her, in Florida or anywhere else.

[...] Jane was reassured that no such claims were being made. [...]

[...] Those reassurances are highly important here now. [...]

[...] I for one will try to reassure myself that “things aren’t that bad yet.” [...]

[...] The smiling portrait was to reassure her — Jane now rather than Ruburt. You sent the reassurance. [...]

[...] The absence of aftereffects, and the continued clarity of my mental processes, may have been reassuring.

[...] She finally believed my reassurances, however, and realized that I was all right physically.

[...] The exercises themselves then help combat negative suggestions on both of your parts, for you are reassured by any progress. Ruburt reacts to the reassurance that you feel.

(I made an effort to reassure Jane at the end of our talk, by telling her I loved her and that I was going to be with her no matter what happened. [...]

[...] That is, the expression of love automatically reassures the sinful self that it is indeed not sinful (a statement that at once I found hard to believe, considering its past and recent actions). [...]

[...] Such expressions will automatically reassure Ruburt at those deep levels. [...]

[...] As he becomes reassured again, the patterns will fade away. [...]

[...] This in itself reassures him.

(12:30 AM.) Since you are talking to Ruburt from your outside, and telling him what to do, when you are not personally saddled in the same way that he is, then how often have you ever reassured him that he could indeed walk properly, get up easily, or joyfully tried to reinforce his confidence?