“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

The parents who say “Brush your teeth because it is good for you, and I want you to be healthy,” may mean “I love you,” but the child would usually prefer a hug and a kiss. And if the hug and kiss is not given then the brush-your-teeth suggestion becomes an order to the child.

All of this is old, yet the patterns began strongly then. He felt that his obvious femininity was almost a threat to both of your works, that he had no right to look sexy and tempt you both when spontaneous love play, for example, would not occur. He remembers you telling him not to kiss you or be sexually provocative unless he meant it.

Earlier, one of the boys kissed me laughingly in front of the group and I laughed, delighted. [...]

[...] They become embarrassed in late boyhood when kissed by their mothers, as a rule — yet it is quite natural to be both independent and dependent, cooperative and competitive.

[...] “And let’s look forward to what we’ll have next Thanksgiving,” I said, as I kissed her good night.

[...] She kissed each of us. [...]

[...] She was delighted—she kissed his hand.

(11:12 AM.) Last night (Jane said) I felt great when Robbie kissed me, and actually I slept quite well, both in my chair and bed. [...]

(December 4, Friday, 11:30 AM: Impression that someone “drifted up” and kissed me on the check. [...]

[...] Michaellen and I embraced and kissed as she said goodbye, and I wondered what her companions thought of such behavior between strangers, right out there under the light.

[...] An affectionate caress or kiss between members of the same sex is generally not considered proper. [...]

([Theodore:] “Shall we kiss your ring?”)

[...] We greeted each other like old friends, wrapping our arms around one another as we talked, and kissed very animatedly. [...]

[...] Then you could have kissed and made up, and meant it.

[...] Yet he spontaneously kissed the father, and tried to give him strength.

[...] Why you will follow our Lady of Florence when she gets up and says we are going to make a circle, or why you would be kissed by our friend here, the cousin of Richelieu. [...]

[...] It would help if you kissed him in the morning, and made some emotional supportive gesture that also encouraged him to get up.

In your particular case I would even suggest that you stay away from the normally accepted sexual areas for awhile, and enjoy instead of the content (?); i.e. when he kisses your hand, and you are aware of the sensation of lip against palm and vice versa—be aware of feeling also in your hand on his skin. [...]