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(9:35.)1. Now: the main issue with Ruburt is the building up of self-trust. This is highly important, and can be done by following the precepts I have mentioned. Impulses should be acknowledged, and according to their nature acted upon—or not—but expressed.
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The acknowledgment of such impulses in the procedure just given will automatically help build Ruburt’s trust in himself, and it is a good idea for him to note such impulses, for later on certain occasions he will be able to see how such and such an impulse, followed on its own, led him to such and such a beneficial event—an event that at the time was completely invisible or unforeseen.
2. Another important way of building his trust is the following—and, in parentheses, (I have given you this material before, but I am organizing it for your current use). The second way, then, is for Ruburt to concentrate upon those improvements he senses daily, either in performance or in feelings of ease, release, or relief. For no day passes without some of these.
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The ideas I have just given will help Ruburt build up self-trust, and in the main that is all that is holding him back right now. The body is responding, and his trust is growing, but it must be built up considerably.
Your own attitude has been highly beneficial, and has helped him in countless instances. He enjoys it when you play with ideas, and this also stimulates his own activity. Many people do not trust themselves, of course. When you are building self-trust, and your body is in any way impaired, then you are learning to do something that you did not do when your body was operating beautifully.
The suggestions are of benefit. You should discuss any daily issues that seem troublesome when they occur, or check them with the pendulum—one or the other. The building up of trust, however, will automatically accelerate Ruburt’s improvements, minimize his discomfort, and hence add to his confidence and performance. He should also read the last few of our sessions, and I have listed my suggestions this evening for his more convenient use.
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