1 result for (book:tps3 AND session:766 AND stemmed:ruburt)
6/17 (35%)
backtracked
options
unresponsive
demands
abundance
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(10:45.) Now: despite all that is going on, Ruburt’s condition is persistently improving. Issues have arisen that earlier would have represented blockages, or set him back. Now he rose above them. As you know, I do not make predictions, yet he has reached a point with his beliefs, and an efficiency with some methods of implementing them, that I foresee a dramatic change for the better.
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In the past at times you did get various symptoms when Ruburt began to improve, and because of his lack of confidence and the state of his beliefs, he backtracked. On some of those occasions your symptoms were the reflection of certain unresolved fears of your own, for, as you know, along the way Ruburt’s condition spoke to some extent for both of you.
This time, however, Ruburt continues to improve. Both of you needed that assurance. Beside that, Ruburt was able to help you to some degree—while before you felt that he could not because of his concentration upon his own problems.
Since you work together far more than most, it is rather natural for you to work out your problems together also. In a way you felt free enough, now, to bring those of your own into the open again. Ruburt has felt soreness, and then felt it drain away, almost as a physical proof of inner soreness disappearing. Somewhat in the same way, you let your questions and problems physically emerge, where they would be out in the open, and Ruburt would no longer be afraid of your problems as well as his own, as he used to be.
(10:59.) Your joys and challenges, and his, jointly form your realities. You were proud that Ruburt was in the process of improving so considerably. You also wanted to make sure that at the first sign of difficulty he wasn’t going to backtrack. In the past week, also, though you may not realize it, the two of you have cleared some important underlying communications.
Events that each of you might have “misinterpreted” in the past were handled quite differently. In another way, old stereotyped patterns were somewhat broken up. This allowed changes in your thinking—both of you. Ruburt was not always the one who needed to be waited upon, for example. You did not consider him in that light in the same way that you did before. He also saw you in a more realistic light, so that your needs could be viewed more clearly.
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