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In the past at times you did get various symptoms when Ruburt began to improve, and because of his lack of confidence and the state of his beliefs, he backtracked. On some of those occasions your symptoms were the reflection of certain unresolved fears of your own, for, as you know, along the way Ruburt’s condition spoke to some extent for both of you.

(10:59.) Your joys and challenges, and his, jointly form your realities. You were proud that Ruburt was in the process of improving so considerably. You also wanted to make sure that at the first sign of difficulty he wasn’t going to backtrack. In the past week, also, though you may not realize it, the two of you have cleared some important underlying communications.

Events that each of you might have “misinterpreted” in the past were handled quite differently. In another way, old stereotyped patterns were somewhat broken up. This allowed changes in your thinking—both of you. Ruburt was not always the one who needed to be waited upon, for example. You did not consider him in that light in the same way that you did before. He also saw you in a more realistic light, so that your needs could be viewed more clearly.

You made some comments very important to him—further illuminating how his past beliefs colors his thoughts, so that he looked at the worst side of the given picture. You understood not feeling well at times, the difficulties he had been up against. Whole areas of communication were cleared, areas pertinent to your current situation.