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You also avoided some issues to your advantage, though it may not seem so. Ruburt was to go to the bathroom, period. He did not have to walk straighter or faster—the getting there, or the destination, regardless of the method, was stressed.

Actually, many times he walks to the bathroom faster at night, since he is not worried about how he looks. The larger point is that you believed, each of you, that change in that particular area was possible. Ruburt moves about faster at night because the patterned behavior of the day is not present.

The spontaneous love-making is an improvement, and important, and Ruburt’s remarks to you today were pertinent in that regard. If Ruburt tries to do physical things the ability to do them will come. You cannot insist upon the proof ahead of time. You cannot say “I will walk in the driveway gladly when I can walk easily.” You must walk in the driveway, showing your body your intent to do so, and it will respond by walking easily. And it will respond because you do want it to walk.

Now Ruburt does walk more around the house than he did, but he should extend this to your ground. It would help if you walked with him in the beginning, though this is not necessarily a prerequisite. Show the body what you want and it will respond. Then, however, in the meantime forget it.