1 result for (book:tps3 AND heading:"delet session septemb 3 1975" AND stemmed:him)
[... 13 paragraphs ...]
Now: in a way the game is up—for Ruburt finally realizes that there is nothing organically wrong with the body. For some time he convinced himself that there was. The love implied in the fact that you help him with suggestions is highly important, because that love implies safety. In the past you have reinforced each other’s beliefs in an unsafe universe. These beliefs have become a part of your private and joint realities, affecting you (me) invisibly as they affect Ruburt visibly.
[... 3 paragraphs ...]
(11:52.) Give us a moment.... The body is freeing itself, but greater freedom must be allowed as far as impulses are concerned, so that Ruburt can realize that his impulses are not threatening. A new balance is then set up between impulse and action, that will enrich his work as .well as accelerate the body’s flexibility. I want him to again become aware of his impulses, therefore, for physical action of any kind—whether he is at his table or not. His impulses will wisely provide creative inspiration and physical actualization, so that one adds to the other.
Let him take a certain part of the day to type his manuscript, another part in which his creative time is free. His body, mind, spirit, will all exercise themselves together. Is he becomes confused, then let him talk to you about it, rather than hide the issue.
[... 1 paragraph ...]
If Ruburt is allowing himself to be spontaneous, then he will spontaneously want to type his script, add to it, clean his house, go outside, see people sometimes, and not see them at other times. The last would apply to you. The results with the arm this evening are a direct result of his writing down his feelings. There is nothing wrong with ambiguous feelings. You cannot set up rules that say you must always react to people in the same way. I want him then to work on his manuscript for two-and-a-half hours, and then to allow himself at least one-and-a-half hours of creative psychic and writing freedom.
(12:08.) Mainly I want him to follow his impulses—which will naturally fall into the lines I have suggested. He is not to feel threatened if while at his desk he feels like physical activity, for all in all his own rhythms will assert themselves. The body is ready to assert itself, and is doing so.
Give us a moment.... Your ideas of quality are reinforced and sensed in the books even while they are not physically apparent. I will have more to say at another time on this. For now I am concerned with Ruburt’s specific problem, and I ask you, lovingly, to help him become aware of his impulses and to act upon them. End of session—except that there are several good surprises on the way.
[... 1 paragraph ...]