1 result for (book:tps3 AND heading:"delet session june 27 1977" AND stemmed:hear)
4/90 (4%)
expression
love
verbally
stomach
unrealistic
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B. Conversely, why don’t we attract the kind of people we’d like to hear from, at least by letter?
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Many parents find it difficult to express love verbally in a positive, open, unabashed manner. The child, however, according to circumstances, may hear only the order “Brush your teeth.”
Ruburt is verbal. He loves to talk. He likes to hear you talk. Oftentimes your stomach upsets you because your love for Ruburt makes you concerned, and in most instances the stimulus is money. An occasion will arise, or a period of time, in which your love for him wants to find expression. You do this by expressing your concern that his work is not being duly appreciated in monetary terms (as I did this evening).
You might feel he is being taken advantage of. You do not say “I love you. I admire your work so that I want to see it duly appreciated.” Verbally oriented, Ruburt hears only an implied order, or criticism. The conflict with the stomach always involves money, however—taxes sometimes, for example—and implies a period or situation in which you think he is being taken advantage of.
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