1 result for (book:tps3 AND heading:"delet session august 22 1977" AND stemmed:alon)
3/62 (5%)
solitude
rejection
hurt
deposits
squandering
[... 5 paragraphs ...]
Why is it that you are so afraid of hurting peoples’ feelings in that regard? There is another belief here, then. You both believe (a) that people will not understand, and (b) that they will feel rejected, and (c) that they will reject you, and you will be left quite alone in the solitude you thought you wanted.
[... 6 paragraphs ...]
So while you complain and resent intrusion, some part of each of you is reassured. Your fellows do after all seek you out, even if the time is wrong. On the other hand, to some extent you squander the free time you have, for example, squandering your Friday evenings often—but not always. You should have a clear picture, taking some definite time out for friends, and it should be clearly understood that in your working hours you expect to be alone.
[... 45 paragraphs ...]
The suggestion is that you work three nights, and that you do this at least three nights each month. End of session. You would be surprised at the results. But at least give the matter consideration, for that alone will help.
[... 2 paragraphs ...]
