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You are used to “trusting your physical perceptions,” taught to accept physical evidence above all as the mark of reality. This is a part of your culture. Ruburt, involved in highly avant-garde work, always tried to make sure he had both feet upon the ground—in his terms, to be fairly objective. When he finds himself in such physical circumstances then it is difficult for him to fly in the face of such “physical evidence.”
In areas where he is doing well, such limitations, and resulting limiting behavior, do not occur to him. In the Air Force situation, for example, he did not say “I cannot possibly deny physical laws, or know what is going on in another place, or even at another time.” He enjoyed defying the physical evidence accepted by the scientist and others.
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Ruburt has on several occasions, but each time let the physical data cow him.
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He must project that same sense of freedom and understanding into the physical situation, and fly as freely in the face of that situation. You were correct, therefore: he must believe that he can indeed be normally flexible. And if he does so believe, he will be. The fear causes him to organize memory and behavior so that all physical evidence then correlates with his belief that he cannot get well.
To some extent this belief of his is quite shared by you, and if his symptoms seem so self-evident to you, imagine how self-evident they seem to him. You form your own reality. You are learning how to do this more consciously. Those areas in which you have doubts are of course the challenging ones. Give us a moment....
Can I give you a few practical suggestions, to fit your present situation? Again, when you awaken in the morning, come over to Ruburt’s side of the bed. In your own way, remind him of what I have said. He wants to get up earlier. But when he feels as if his efforts physically are getting nowhere, then he thinks “What is the use?” So your very early morning encouragement can be of value.
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Give us a moment.... Since you understand so clearly the reasons for his problem, his lack of belief in the fact that he can indeed get well, then do your best to remind him that he can get well. And that you are not as hypnotized by his symptoms as he is.
I told you both to do certain suggestions together, because your belief in them and your effectiveness could help him revive his own body beliefs. The fact is that both of you are nearly hypnotized by the physical effects. While the main challenge is his, you can help by reviving your own beliefs that he can indeed return to normal physical behavior.
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