“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

Forget the word orgasm. Become aware of what you do feel without questioning. Cease to strive for an orgasm. You are trying too hard in that direction, as with meditation. You are too earnest in that regard. In its own way hypnosis involves a psychic kind of play—meditation involves a psychic kind of play and lovemaking involves a psychic kind of play. You are too serious in your lovemaking, as in other fields.

Allow your body its simple pleasure. Do not begin by insisting it have a certain kind of peak—let it go to be itself. The same thing in meditation—let your inner self play in your meditation and let your body play in your lovemaking.

When his lips touch your hand—if you do it in the sense of play and allow your native awareness to function.

You are a great help to your patients because then you allow your spontaneity full play. You use telepathy very well in discovering their feelings—you use your inner senses in perceiving their difficulties and intuitively you are aware of the problems and able to help them rise above them.

Use your own initiative for variations—think in terms of play—of a playful encounter, rather than serious encounter. Remember that the body, left alone, will find its own joy and pleasure. So concentrate upon what the body feels.