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His condition was the result of denying feelings and trying to hold them back again, so as not to upset the apple cart. The feelings were told to shut up. They were not intelligent. They were beneath consideration. They were not approved of, and intellectually Ruburt silenced them, before giving them adequate voice or expression.
The feelings can be adequately handled through reason and emotion after (underlined) they are allowed expression.
Now your remark, not verbatim, “Come on, Hon, get with it,” worked to some extent, for it roused his desire to give you a good day, not to spoil it, and his spirits rose to some degree. But you did not encourage him to express the feelings. Both of you dealt with the matter in the old way, to some extent.
He told himself he understood what the feelings were, and did not approve of them, but he did not allow them expression at all.
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