“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

It also involves subsidiary accomplishment that is not demanding, but that would always be a necessary part of any avocation of his. Now I suggest a different approach, also, that may help change the focus from physical symptoms to physical accomplishment. I suggest a game. I believe he will fall in with this idea easily. I want him to list his physical activities, so see how many new ones he can perform in a playful manner. These can be as simple activities or motions as he wants. He can pick any area he chooses, but he is to tell you about the accomplishments.

This is not putting you in the role of a taskmaster, now, but I want you to join with him: “Can you do this? Come on, it’s only a game, see what you can do.” He likes that kind of challenge as long as there is no stigma attached to nonachievement. And the idea is, quite simply, to reward him for achievement.

Seeing how fast he can walk—this is another example—in the house, say, away from pressure. The idea here is on accomplishment.

You and Ruburt have always done well expressing your intellectual ideas to each other. It was your emotional feelings that you did not express adequately, and again, do not neglect your intimate relationship.