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Now it will help if you take it for granted that under some circumstances, dealing with Ruburt’s idea of authority, he has difficulty expressing dissatisfaction, or any normal impatience... It would help if you simply remind him of this when such occasions arise... for this would be enough now to let him make a suitable adjustment at any given occasion. You need not force an issue, but remind him.
You fear overinfluencing him, but since your influence is considerable in any case, this is a good time to use it. His intellect will then begin to take over. When you say nothing he uses this as an excuse, thinking, “Rob has said nothing, therefore he must agree with what I am doing.”
You have not forced Ruburt into paths where he did not want to go. What seems to you like inner difficulties or problems, or lack of success, like Ruburt’s desolations, serve as the very impetus to development. (In my art.) Ruburt should be open about the symptoms (etc.).
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