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Now. When you make love to him, assure him of your emotional love and concern, and affection. In the beginning stress this, and lull him. He needs to be quieted first through word and caresses. Use the word husband often, reminding him of your realistic relationship. And emphasize also the connection between emotional and mystic love that you share.

The overly conscientious self is the part that will retreat, that carries grudges, that believes an eye for an eye, and is relatively uncompromising. It must be made to understand that the spontaneous self is innately good and can be trusted. It needs to be lovingly protected; but lovingly, not hindered nor fought nor held down.

Both portions however have great capacities for survival, and are each strong, so that the personality has indeed survived. There is a need for the spontaneous self to understand the purposes of the conscientious self also.