“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

Also she loves Philip, and would not consciously want to dominate him if she could. He senses this subconscious need of hers however to hold him, and resents it vigorously. She attempts to dominate him in her own way, and on a subconscious basis, and it is indeed by appealing to him through helplessness. At the same time she does not want him to give in to her.

With the girl’s background it is natural enough that an independent male would both frighten and fascinate her. It was this way from the beginning of their relationship.

The trivial conversations which you were all discussing would be helpful here, as reassurance. Your own ideas concerning various issues could be profitably inserted when you are not emotionally upset over them.

Now. Several hours devoted on occasion to intimate relationships of sexual nature would be advantageous, simply because of the implied suggestion that you were not only willing but anxious to devote yourself to her. The energy that you have could be focused momentarily into a physical acknowledgment that would have strong psychic overtones for both of you. The physical relationship then would indeed open psychic channels, where understanding becomes intuitional. This would be to both of your benefits, and she would understand what you so poorly put into words.