“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

Also she loves Philip, and would not consciously want to dominate him if she could. He senses this subconscious need of hers however to hold him, and resents it vigorously. She attempts to dominate him in her own way, and on a subconscious basis, and it is indeed by appealing to him through helplessness. At the same time she does not want him to give in to her.

She is not a partner and you are indeed in difficulties. She can become a partner however, but anger will only minimize her importance in her own eyes, and therefore in yours.

Now. Several hours devoted on occasion to intimate relationships of sexual nature would be advantageous, simply because of the implied suggestion that you were not only willing but anxious to devote yourself to her. The energy that you have could be focused momentarily into a physical acknowledgment that would have strong psychic overtones for both of you. The physical relationship then would indeed open psychic channels, where understanding becomes intuitional. This would be to both of your benefits, and she would understand what you so poorly put into words.