1 result for (book:tps1 AND heading:"delet session januari 20 1971" AND stemmed:helpless)
2/52 (4%)
protest
fears
terrified
mother
accuser
[... 16 paragraphs ...]
To ask you for help therefore was to put himself in the position of his mother, and plead helplessness. This has been mentioned before but it is a good point, that retaliation against his mother was felt to be impossible, for she would then have an attack for which Ruburt felt responsible. This brought on greater feelings of guilt over any protest.
[... 6 paragraphs ...]
He could not give himself well in your personal intimate relations because it was with you most of all that he had to watch his expression. The fears had to be kept away from you or the game was up. He could not afford then to let go. He thinks fears are an admission of helplessness, that you always wanted someone who was free and independent, and that you would have no use for anyone in that position.
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