1 result for (book:tps1 AND heading:"delet session decemb 6 1971" AND stemmed:situat)
4/64 (6%)
disappointment
emotional
interaction
inhibition
relationship
[... 5 paragraphs ...]
Much of what you discussed today was discussed by me a good deal of time ago. (True.) The suggestions I made at that time were not followed. Others were not, for both of your reasons, because the situation served both of your purposes to some extent.
Because now you fear that the situation may become a way of life, you are finally both willing to take more direct action. To some degree you have both been avoiding each other. You made a pact not to discuss troublesome, frightening or critical problems, particularly those which did not seem to have an immediate solution.
[... 22 paragraphs ...]
Your relationship and your lives in general, you see, follow certain definite patterns set by you. Your work and your relationship are interwoven. You have not allowed yourselves the leeway, or the excuses either, that people do with families or a large number of interests. If you do not find emotional satisfaction with each other you do not find it, in other words. The whole problem however involves your work also, and solving one problem solves the other. Finding release in one gives you release in the other, and both of you chose therefore a life situation and framework in which precisely those problems you have tired to ignore should serve as challenges and impetuses.
[... 25 paragraphs ...]
(“Well, “ I said, “I guess for the first time I don’t feel there’s still something about the situation that we don’t know….”)
[... 7 paragraphs ...]
