“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

It makes little difference to me. We shall see. Give us a moment. (Pause.) These are impressions: 3 6. I will pick this up later. There are rather severe difficulties involving the male. (Meaning Brian.) They are psychological problems, and there is an identification on the part of the questioner (Pat) this evening, an identification of a strong nature with the male. There is a confusion of identity here, and this is the basis of the questioner’s problem.

There is a strong and rather aggressive nature beneath the surface personality of the questioner, of which the questioner is frightened, to some extent therefore a divided self. The male is passive and of a submissive mind, and given to an obsession with overconsideration for security. He will always seek security, but he enjoys being the object of a chase of this nature.

Telepathically you were aware of the full nature of the male’s relationship with his mother. You chase him precisely because you were fairly certain you would not have him, for it was the search, again, that was important. It is a substitute for facing your own destiny. It is a counterfeit living pattern, and you are using it to avoid developing your full strength and stature as a personality.

You would not be happy with the male, and you intuitively realize this. The obsession to have him grows precisely in proportion to your inner realization that you do not want him, but only the excitement involved in searching for him. You must end the search and face the self.

…Give us a moment. (Pause.) You would do well with male characters and be fairly strong in plotting. You must above all things avoid superficialities, for you use them as excuses. You laugh at yourself, and then think that this means that you do not have to take yourself seriously.