1 result for (book:ecs3 AND heading:"esp class session januari 12 1971" AND stemmed:joel)
[... 28 paragraphs ...]
(Joel told of finding a man asleep at his work, explained his feeling and emotions and could he change them?)
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([Joel:] “You don’t just automatically think good things about this fellow and then repress the negative thoughts and never even become aware that I felt...”)
[... 3 paragraphs ...]
([Joel:] “In the beginning, with the first example, before we filled and compounded the frustration, the charges, would you have recommended an action like saying, ‘come on, this is wrong and I have probably done this sort of thing myself, but this is wrong and it really bugs me and that we got to get up and get to work here, be honest with him at that level. Would that have prevented these charges?”)
[... 1 paragraph ...]
([Joel:] “It seems to me there are two people we want to avoid making a brunt of the anger, he and myself. One, I don’t want to kick him. Two, I don’t want to hurt myself in some way.”)
[... 1 paragraph ...]
([Joel:] “Yes, what I am trying to get at is how I should have had, though in this hypothetical case, these feeling without trying to repress them and going through this.”)
[... 2 paragraphs ...]
(To Joel) Now you certainly understand that I am doing the same thing with you, in a different way, as I do with my very dear friend over here (Florence) in another way, so do not be offended. And I do not want any of you, you see, to use these ideas as superficial bandages to put over your bleeding psyches because these ideas can, on occasion, be used in a superficial manner.
[... 3 paragraphs ...]
(To Joel) So you are not as bad as I pegged you either, but strongly inclined in that direction. So is everyone else in the room, including Ruburt, inclined in that direction.
([Joel:] “How would you define bad in that context?”)
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([Joel:] “The first night I was here you said we will see more of you and you were quite definite about it, I’ve often wondered, why the certainty?”)
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([Joel:] “That implies to me a prior knowledge of our life.”)
[... 3 paragraphs ...]
([Joel:] “Is that why I react so strongly against it now, because I have gone beyond that point?)
[... 12 paragraphs ...]
(To Joel)... she (reference to Alison) was a male, however, at the time, and when I said you were not ready I meant that you were not ready. In that time you were very concerned with the idea of power, and it is one that you are still deliberating with. Not political power but personal power and as to how far you should go to convince others of ideas in which you believe and how far you should go in propagating ideas in which you no longer believe. And in dealing with the sense of power that you also realize you experience in both instances. Now, when you are ready to deal with that problem, then I will give you the rest of the reincarnational material. And I mention this only to show you that I was not making an innocuous general remark to put you off. And now, dear friend, I bid you a blessed and a fond and a violent good evening .
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([Joel:] “Would it be better to think in terms of nice and nicer?”)
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