“Seth material” search engine (Jane Roberts)

It is according to your attitude. It depends upon whether you insist upon a job of prestige or a job that will give you enough money to pay your bills. You are insisting upon a job of prestige.

Your (to Brad) attitude, changed, will automatically alter her attitude as she reacts to the change in yours. You give each other subconscious cues to which you then react. You can change the cues that you give, and therefore intensely alter the situation, and lead her to self-knowledge.

You are endowing her with what you imagine to be highly efficient masculine qualities. You are endowing yourself with what you imagine to be feminine qualities. Now the human being is a gestalt of perception. There are no qualities as such that are masculine or feminine. You are knocking down those abilities that are your own because you conceive of them as feminine. And in your mind you are setting Margo up as highly efficient because she has those abilities that you think should be your own because you think that they are masculine qualities. So you are allowing yourself to behave in what you imagine to be a subservient, feminine behavior. Now this is all a result of your own attitude, and she has reacted to that attitude, and reinforced it, because she wants to be dominant. One portion of her wants to be dominant; the other portion looks to you as a man, and there you fail her, because you refuse to assert the independence that is your nature. It seems to contradict your artistic nature and there is no contradiction. The contradiction only exists in your mind. She looks to you for direction and you do not give it, and therefore—if all within this room will excuse me—she turns into a bitch.