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([Brad:] “A problem is a negative thing. “)
A problem need not be negative. A problem is a challenge. It is only negative when you look at it in that aspect. A problem is usually the opportunity for change, growth and development. Now, your chatter was much more bubbling than mine. 1 want to make sure the bubbling quality continues, however, and that is why I am speaking along these terms tonight.
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(Brad—asking about positive attitudes in terms of his own problems.)
Stop indulging A) in self-pity. B) Stop indulging in bitter and negative projections into the future. Stop seeing yourself as helpless. Stop reminding yourself of how bitter your present experience is. Stop telling yourself that you are powerless and that there is nothing you can do to change your mood. Stop luxuriating in negative thoughts and emotions. You do this by stopping now. Each time you find yourself thinking, how can I bear this; instead you say, many people have many more severe problems than I.
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Not necessarily her, and she is not the problem. Your thoughts and emotions are the problem.
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Very little. Now, give yourself some freedom from negative thoughts and give her freedom in your mind. Concentrate upon what you have that is positive. Now, this includes your health, your life and your livelihood. Enjoy the sensation of being alive. Learn again to re-educate yourself so that you understand what subjective happiness is and then see how you feel and what your problem is.
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